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I took a random, informal survey of several graduate school students, encouraging them to share their thoughts on dating online.
"Well, you can't do anything at eleven o'clock at night on a weekday except have sex and go to sleep," he'd say. And so, whenever he asked me out he'd hear a knock on his door around eleven.
And thus, I was hurled into the basic gay dating dilemma: Do you have sex with someone you're physically but not emotionally attracted to? I remember him saying, "Let's do something, dinner, a movie." "I can't really do anything until eleven o'clock," I'd tell him.
When summer begins, we are suddenly in the thick of wedding season. In the midst of all this wedded bliss, you’re just trying to avoid your newly engaged friend and sparing yourself a half-hour conversation about the difference between egg white and winter white.
It’s time for joy, flowers, caterers, something borrowed, and something blue. Maybe it was getting that last wedding invitation of a college friend or browsing through Bed, Bath & Beyond with a gift registry full of expensive silverware.
Like this guy, "Ted." I loved everything about him except his body. I even invoked the "Three Date Rule" to buy some time to let my emotional attraction morph into sexual desire.